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Balance between being too needy and not allowing myself to need people.

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Needing   People   How to speak so that  people  want to listen https://www.youtube.com/watch? v=eIho2S0ZahI , TED   How To Help Others Open Up Emotionally - YouTube   2:25 https://www.youtube.com/watch? v=HTaksoYpK20 Inspiring Moments - Helping Others   https://www.youtube.com/ watch?v=ZobvrQoWWXs , Helping and Inspiring others - YouTube   4:23 https://www.youtube.com/watch? v=jfxf4f456j4 Needing   People We can find the balance between  needing   people  too much and not letting ourselves  need anyone at all. Many of us have unmet dependency needs lingering from the past. While we want others to fulfill our desire to be loved unconditionally, we may have chosen  people  who cannot, or will not, be there for us. Some of us are so needy from not being loved that we drive  people away by  needing  them too much. Some of u...

My actions will determine whether I'm liked today.

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True Friendship Quotes - The Famous quotes of ... - YouTube ▶ 3:12 https://www.youtube.com/watch? v=ccrS2-g2s58 True Friends Quotes - 14 Quotes about True Friendship ... ▶ 1:11 https://www.youtube.com/watch? v=A-gB0h4SLps True friendship quote - YouTube ▶ 0:14 https://www.youtube.com/watch? v=5LA7KXea2d8 Amazing 14 friendship quotes for true friendship - YouTube ▶ 2:14 https://www.youtube.com/watch? v=2hyJCibmGA8 Getting people to like you is merely the other side of liking them. --Norman Vincent Peale What does it mean to like other people? It means giving respect and attention to their opinions and perspectives on life. It means respecting their feelings, attitudes, and values without passing judgment or trying to control them. Clearly and simply, liking others means letting them be who they are and celebrating their individuality. Openly expressing fondness for a friend is affirming for...

make a decision to practice love unconditionally - l

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Love is a positive feeling and if one cultivates this feeling in their life, they will surely free themselves from any unbalanced condition that surrounds them. --Syd Banks Anger, whether unfocused or triggered by a troubling experience or a hostile person, discolors our perspective through an afternoon or a full day, perhaps even a week. Our understanding of events is always directly related to the attitude we've chosen to harbor. No situation or person, however difficult, has the power to steal away our happiness without our passive consent. So willingly we humans adopt negative attitudes. With grandiose egos, we resent rain pouring on our picnic plans or a friend's illness canceling an engagement. Our choices for actions, feelings, or attitudes are far greater than those we habitually turn to. And it's likely we know love least of all. But just as anger breeds more anger, love cultivates more love, and each life that's touched by love profits from it. When we make a...